DAY SIXTY-ONE | Patience

There is an old saying, “Patience is a virtue.” In our world today, we aren’t used to waiting. Things move quickly, sometimes almost instantaneously. Our food can be microwaved, our entertainment is on-demand, and our mobile devices can access almost any answer we feel the need to find in mere seconds after we feel theContinue reading “DAY SIXTY-ONE | Patience”

DAY SIXTY | Why Did I Do That?

When seat belts came along, they were kind of a novelty, an added feature to a car. Eventually it became evident that seatbelts saved lives and were not a novelty; they were a necessity. There are times when I find myself knowing I should fasten my seatbelt, thinking about it, driving down the road andContinue reading “DAY SIXTY | Why Did I Do That?”

DAY FIFTY-NINE | Be Your Own Best Friend

There is deep importance in choosing to be my own best friend. It is because if I am not deliberately working to act as my own best friend, I can easily turn into my own worst enemy. There is a constant interior monologue about ourselves that we listen to. There is one voice that isContinue reading “DAY FIFTY-NINE | Be Your Own Best Friend”

DAY FIFTY-EIGHT | Is it worth it? #4

Radicalize Your Habit Patterns Once you have determined that there are places in your life where a preference could be moved to a place of lower priority, then you need to begin to look at your habits. Many experts indicate that most everything we do, we do because of habits. It is important then thatContinue reading “DAY FIFTY-EIGHT | Is it worth it? #4”

DAY FIFTY-SEVEN | Is it worth it? #3

Rearrange Your Personal Preferences and Priorities After we reallocate our time and assess our relationships, the next thing we need to look at when we decide whether or not something is worth the price is our personal preferences and priorities. There are places I like to go and people I like to be with, andContinue reading “DAY FIFTY-SEVEN | Is it worth it? #3”

DAY FIFTY-SIX | Is it worth it? #2

Risk Relationship Testing As we prepare to count the costs for what we plan to achieve in life, we must also evaluate our relationships. I refer to this as relationship testing, and there are risks to it. One of the basic desires of the human being is to be loved. There are certain things thatContinue reading “DAY FIFTY-SIX | Is it worth it? #2”

DAY FIFTY-FIVE | Is it worth it? #1

Time Allotments Am I willing to pay the price? It was a question we asked of ourselves when we first began to set some preliminary goals. For the next four days, we will discuss some deeper questions we can ask and answers we can find when we begin to address the worth of any specificContinue reading “DAY FIFTY-FIVE | Is it worth it? #1”

DAY FIFTY-FOUR | Values

What do you value in your life? There is a tendency to connect the word “value” with monetary value almost instantaneously. That is not the sort of value that we want to focus our thoughts on today. The values we approach today are better defined as a person’s principles or standards of behavior, or one’sContinue reading “DAY FIFTY-FOUR | Values”

DAY FIFTY-THREE | Competition

Comparison often goes hand in hand with competition. Competition can be a wonderful tool to accomplish things. When we compete against someone, it can be a healthy dynamic where we are both striving for a goal. However, it can also create a very unhealthy dynamic. When we start to simply want to beat the otherContinue reading “DAY FIFTY-THREE | Competition”

DAY FIFTY-TWO | Comparison Revisited

Previously, we discussed my belief that comparison is the single most damaging process in human relationships. We are going to revisit comparison today to unpack a few more thoughts on it because this topic is one that can transform a life or a relationship forever. Comparison is very common in our world. It is aContinue reading “DAY FIFTY-TWO | Comparison Revisited”